Wednesday, October 23, 2013
push & pull
Going up to Baguio, the road was very zigzag crazy road. That road was probably the most important part of our trip to the Philippines. I'll try to explain what I'm trying to say here.
The road was very curvy, sharp winding curves. Jude and I was sitting next to each other. Everyone was silent, everyone was minding their own business. [My heart is about to burst typing this thing;] When the road started to become windy, Jude and I found each others hand without saying anything, locking eyes or non whatsoever. We just did. Every time the road curves to the right, he'll pull me to the left so that we'll "equilibirate" each other; [if that was a word, if not, I made it up]. Every time the road turns to the left, I'll pull him to the right. And all these pushing and pulling, was on the down low, all us felt it. And that's how it should be.
I realized, that's how relationship should be. Give and take. I check you, you check me. I'm guilty. Yes. Because for a long time now, I've been spoiled by him. I've been pretty laid back in giving. Always taking and half assed giving. Like I said, that road was probably the most important part of our trip, well for the most part, mine. With no words needed, he knows how to center me, my whole being. Thanks road.
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